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Rainy Day Cookery – Breakfast Muffins

If you’re anything like me and are used to spending most of your time outside, rainy days can be a bit of a challenge. We are more than happy to cover up and pop some wellies on when it’s a bit wet but when we have days where the rain is torrential and the thunder and lightning have set in, even the hardiest of us have to admit defeat!

When we recently had one of these days I decided it was time to introduce Ted to the delights of home baking. I have resisted including him in cooking until this point as I didn’t feel he was ready to follow directions and thought that his determination to be independent may cause problems however once we started I felt that I had really underestimated my little chap and was so impressed with both how well he did and how much he enjoyed the whole process.

My cookery style when it comes to healthy food snacks for Ted is very ‘chuck it in and hope for the best’ and thankfully so far it has worked well for us.

With this in mind I mashed bananas into the big bowl and then filled up Ted’s little colourful bowls with the rest of the ingredients we needed, I then tried to let him have as much freedom as possible.

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He loved being able to have it all in front of him, picking up and pouring all the ingredients himself…

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Obviously there was the odd cheeky taste test…

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The eggs could have been a messy option…

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But amazingly went straight in to the bowl without a hiccup!

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Before long we were ready to pop them into the oven and wait 20 minutes to find out how they’d turned out!

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Looking good…

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It seems our mini food critic has given them his seal of approval too!

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If you fancy giving our Breakfast muffins a go, our very loose recipe is as follows…

– 3 ripe bananas mashed
– A cup of porridge oats
– A cup of wholemeal flour
– 2 teaspoons of baking powder
– A cup of yummy ‘extras’ we used raisins, sunflower seeds and chia seeds but any fresh/dried fruits and seeds work well.
– A teaspoon of cinnamon
– 2 eggs
– Some milk

I mashed the bananas and then Ted added all the dry ingredients, stirring them in well.
We then added the eggs and enough milk to make the mixture a cake consistency (I did warn you I’m no Mary Berry!!)
In to cake cases and baked at Gas Mark 5 for 20 minutes before allowing to cool and taste testing!

Please do share your pictures if you try these by tweeting @loz83g or using #thingsmytoddlerloves on Instagram.

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Increasing Iron – Pregnancy Fun!

After my 28 week midwife check up on Tuesday, I received a phone call to tell me that my HB levels were low.

Low. I don’t know how low or what this means as I didnt get a call from a medical professional who wanted to discuss this with me. I just had a message from a receptionist with the ‘update’ and notification that a doctor had left me a prescription for iron tablets (Ferrous Sulphate) at the surgery.

Is it me or is this really bad practice? I haven’t met this doctor before, she knows nothing about my pregnancy, any related ailments I have or my feelings on medication. She hasn’t explained my levels to me or what they mean but she has prescribed me tablets that by all accounts are likely to leave me with some horrible side effects and feeling generally yuk. She also feels it’s appropriate to do this and ask somebody with no medical training or ability to answer my queries to notify me, like it is a done deal and I should just do as I’m told.

As you can probably sense, I won’t just be doing as I’m told without research and consultation!

I am not against medication but I am against not being able to ask questions that enable me to weigh up the pros and con’s for myself. I am having a Whooping Cough jab on Monday so will be asking the nurse to provide me with more information about my levels then which will enable me to make a fully informed decision.

I have however in the meantime contacted my midwife plus two private midwifes I have done Natal Hypnotherapy with, all of whom have said my levels are very unlikely to be at a stage (especially as I’m suffering no symptoms) where I cannot try and control them through diet initially and then if necessary resort to medication later.

They also provided me with the following advice;

– It is normal and healthy for HB to go down as pregnancy progresses, especially once in the third trimester.

– You aren’t at any greater risk of having a big blood loss if your iron level is low, it is just that if you do, you won’t cope with it as well.

– Side effects of Iron tablets are common and can include abdominal pain, constipation, diarrhoea, heartburn and nausea.

– Taking spatone twice a day will improve your levels as will increasing iron rich foods in your diet. Red meat, poultry, leafy green veg, beans, pulses, dried fruit, eggs, fortified wholegrain cereals and bread plus include lots of vitamin C rich foods/drinks with meals as this helps iron absorption. 

– Avoid drinking tea around meal times as tannin blocks iron from being absorbed.

– Avoid high levels of caffeine, calcium, wholegrain cereals (although wholegrains are a good source of iron themselves, they contain phytic acid, which can stop your body absorbing iron if too much is consumed) and soya as all can prevent effective iron absorption.

– Vitamin B12 is also needed to absorb Iron, not in your gut at the same time like with Vitamin C but to make chemicals that are part of the Iron uptake process (i.e. you can have it anytime in the day). It’s in dairy, eggs and marmite or you can get vitamin pills.

– You need stomach acid to absorb B12 so make sure you’re not taking antacids/heart burn relief around the time you’re eating your source of B12.

I have also looked at natural supplements myself and today, in Sainsburys I found this…

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It isn’t cheap, this pack is normally £10 but was on offer at £7.50 today. I think it will be worth it though and should last me about 3 weeks as a 10g serving provides over 340% RDA of Iron and 1120% of B12.

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It is by a company called Bioglan Super foods and can be added to food easily, so I have ditched the morning coffee (probably already should have anyway!) and have started having a green smoothie instead.

Today’s Iron boosting breakfast smoothie contained:
1 banana
Handful of frozen berries
1/4 avocado
200ml Orange juice (fresh, not from concentrate)
Handful of spinach
1/4 Cucumber

This made two portions and I then added a heaped teaspoon (approx 5g)of green powder to each. I’m not going to lie, it tastes like pond water but I just drank it with a straw quickly! I’m going to play around with different ingredients and look at adding things like peanut butter and agarve nectar to make it slightly more appealing but I figure 30 seconds of enduring the drink is better than 11 weeks + of tablet side effects!

My plan now is to have one of these for breakfast everyday, to make sure I have red meat, chicken and/or eggs every day plus plenty of green veg and pulses and to swap caffeinated drinks for herbal teas. My midwife has said she can then retest me at 34 weeks which still leaves us time to take medicated action if completely necessary.

All of this info plus some personal stories have really helped me relax and feel confident I can take control of this without needing to medicate straightaway.

I know it probably seems as though I am over reacting but as I’m planning a second home birth I feel it especially important I’m in the best health possible and feel quite strongly that my medical care should be a discussion between myself and a professional not just an unexplained prescription left at a desk and if the NHS is struggling financially why are doctors offering prescriptions first if other options are available?

I’d love to hear your thoughts and any Iron boosting tips!

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Photo of the Weekend #3

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A Quiet Mother’s Day bath? 

Not on Ted’s watch! 

He needs in…and fast! No time for nappy removal or even to take the onesie off – FOMO overtook sanity and reasoning and he had to be plunged in without delay!! 

 The empty, relaxing water wasn’t adequate either…and this big Mummy was getting in the way. 

 ‘No more’ signed Ted as he pointed at me, so out I got – I know my place and on Mother’s Day 2015, it’s cold and shivering on the bathroom floor while my baby enjoys my bath, to himself, fully clothed!! 

 Pandered to? Never! 

In charge? Without a doubt! 

Where’s that parenting manual again?!! 

 In his defence I did also get an awesome painting/collage creation…

 

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And some amazing morning snuggles 

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Who needs baths anyway?!

Laura x


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Celebrate!

We have had a fantastic weekend, months ago we decided that just because we’re not religious, Ted shouldn’t miss out on a celebration of him, simply being him so we set about planning a ‘Welcome to the World’ party!

When we sent the invitations out in the spring, we had no idea we’d be in a different house and not quite recovered or straight from said move…However,  it was the perfect kick up the backside to get everything in line!

I am extremely fortunate that one of my best friends Midge (it’s a long story…she’s really called Sarah) is a very talented event stylist so we managed to have everything looking Ted centred (well, aside from the copious amount of pimms, the wine fridge and giant beer cool box) but adult friendly too.

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Primary colours, fire truck cupcakes (as a nod to Rich’s job) and big happy sunflowers were the name of the game!

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We were sooo fortunate with the weather, a scare shower at 9 am had me thinking the worst but within an hour all the clouds had disappeared and we were very grateful for the awning keeping all the babies cool!

The BBQ went down a treat, we picked up supplies from a local butchers the day before and had way too much for the 50+ people who joined us once it was teamed with the goodies that were generously added by friends and family…

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My friend Gemma created this triumph of a cake – even featuring the man himself and Ted was most upset that mean Mummy didn’t think this cake
from my friend Claire was the next step on his baby led weaning journey…

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It was such a lovely opportunity for us to spend time with people who are special to us, was amazing to see them fight over Ted cuddles and showed just how much our little guy has captured the hearts of not only us but our nearest and dearest too.

We were over whelmed by the amazingly thoughtful gifts he received and his savings account certainly looks healthier than ours now!

It was a busy, happy day that wound down to coincide with the World Cup Final, some rather bleary eyed boys watched / snored through Germany’s victory…Ted however, legend that he is, managed to last 40 minutes past his normal bed time then was snoozing away until morning despite the rather noisier than normal surroundings!

Now, we best get planning his 1st birthday party…a January garden party doesn’t sound quite so appealing though…time to call on Midge again!!

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Missing out…

Rich and I celebrate our first wedding anniversary this week and we were lucky enough to receive the gift of time from my parents, they not only treated us to a wonderful couples massage but they also looked after the little guy overnight so we could have a bank holiday night out.

We had been looking forward to this for ages and during pregnancy set firm rules for ‘our time’ when we managed to have some again… ‘no baby talk’ being high on the agenda – oh how naive we were!

We had it all planned out, meal, sparkling conversation about important world issues to show we’re still in touch, wine, cocktails, a romantic stroll back home, more wine, candles, lighting, seduction.

The reality was quite different, order a drink…

(quickly text mum to make sure all ok, stare gormlessly at the gummy smiley face gracing my screen saver for a few seconds)

…relax, drinks going down well and enjoying time together, conversation more Daily Mail than Guardian but hey, there comes a time when you just have to accept the sidebar of doom has sucked you in and this is fine, as long as you always start any reference to what you’ve read with “admittedly it was on daily mail online but…”

(quickly check phone, no reply…oh god! Check message time, 17.34 and current time 17.43. 9 minutes. Why hasn’t she replied yet? Maybe he’s hurt, maybe they’re in hospital, there’s never any reception in hospitals??)

Drink and laugh at myself with Rich, obviously they’re just playing and not seen message!

(17.45 “All fine, off for a walk before bathtime xx”)

Hahaha, of course all is fine, I knew that, wasn’t worried at all!

Dinner continued without concern, plenty of bogof cocktails lubricating our systems and making us those charismatic, charming, hilarious people we used to be pre baby. It was amazing to concentrate on one another and not be bouncing a little person or loosing our train of thought mid sentence when one or other of us started agoooing at Ted but it was also strange!

(18.25 “sending goodnight kisses to the little guy xx”)

Our afternoon/evening was punctuated with thoughts of what Ted would normally be up to and we wondered if he was doing ok (he was), if he missed us (probably not) and if he settled like normal (he did).

(19.20 “Ted bathed, fed and asleep xx” 19.21″Excellent, all ok? Did he settle ok? xx”
19.22 “No problems, now leave me alone and enjoy your evening xx”)

We talked about everything and had an amazing time but our baby boy was never far from our thoughts, we chatted about the times we love at the moment, looked at pictures and marvelled at how much he’s grown already, listed our favourite things he does (who knew looking, grabbing and cooing could be assembled into a hierarchy?!) and our hopes and plans for the future. Everything was about us, the new us, the us that now has three parts. We laughed about our pre parenthood rules, we made no apologies for our deviations though.

My pregnant self was terrified of missing out on the things that made me happy but the things that make me happy now are just different. Happiness is baby grins at 5am, making me feel more loved than I ever thought possible,  it’s watching Rich throw Ted into the air and hearing him squeal with delight, his eyes willing Daddy to do it again, it’s sitting on the floor watching the little guy try with all his might to pull the bee off of his play mat, teetering on the brink of rolling as he wrestles with it. Missing out isn’t an issue now, feeling so content at home means I never really feel I’m missing out because everything I need is here…

Except right now it’s not, it’s having a sleepover at Nanna and Grandad’s…it’s 2am,  candles, wine and seduction are all over and I have no bubba to spy on – I miss him, even though he’ll be fast asleep now, it’s a weird feeling and I can’t wait to collect him already (is it ok to call and ask to listen to him snuffle? No?…OK!)

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What a year!

Today is my birthday and therefore a natural point of reflection…a year is a relatively long time so it’s only natural that life alters somewhat between one birthday and another, however this year more than any previous, has seen my life change in a monumental way.

Just 12 months ago I was waking up hungover, in my little flat as a Miss, having just celebrated my 30th birthday to excess over the previous two weeks, in London, Paris and at home with my amazing fiancé, family and friends. We drank copious amounts of bubbles, laughed, danced and sang… little did we know, in the midst of said celebrations we also made a baby!!

Watching my gorgeous 14 week old bundle of giggles, kick and grab under his playmat this morning it seems impossible that this time last year he was an unknown dot inside me, ready to turn our world on its head!

Fast forward to now, I was woken at 5.30am by Ted in our new family home, now a wife and Mummy and I honestly wouldn’t change a thing (ok, well maybe a post Vegas conception if we had a magic lamp!)…Our little guy was so worth the tears and hormones, he was worth my wedding dress being slightly too tight and he was well worth a sober Route 66 honeymoon!

When I sat drinking my coffee this time last year, I probably pictured us in some exotic, exciting location celebrating today but life surprises you and there’s nowhere on earth I’d choose to be right now other than with my boys on my special day – everything happens for a reason, I trust in my path and am enjoying the journey!

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I’m a Mummy!

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Our beautiful little man arrived three days after my due date at 19.09 on Tuesday 21st January, he weighed a dinky 6lb 3oz and was born at home, just as I had hoped.

We have called him Ted or as he’s become known ‘just Ted’ as Ted isn’t short for anything else and he has no middle names.

OK, I know that means I’ve been a bit slack but babies are time consuming and in all honesty, until the last couple of weeks, sleep has been the priority at any given opportunity. Three months in though and I’m starting to think maybe, just maybe I can manage a bit of writing too.